|"Rider and Elephant" morning pages collage by Lani|
Thankfully, though, we can train the elephant, we can learn when and why the rider gets tired and falls asleep at the job, letting the elephant have her way. We can learn to guide the elephant, and remove distractions and "carrots" from her path. We can also use small rewards that are good for her.
So what sort of rewards might be good for your elephant?